Our Belief Systems
I’d like to begin by defining what a belief is. There are many slightly different definitions of what a belief is, but for simplicity, I’m going to use yourdictionary.com’s definition. It says :
a belief is anything that is accepted by a person as true.
I hope we can we all agree on that "working" definition.
Every person has a unique belief system.Our belief system is composed of a vast array of different beliefs (things that we accept as being true), that include survival beliefs, health beliefs, career beliefs, social beliefs, cultural beliefs, financial beliefs and religious beliefs, to name but a few. The question I want to investigate is “
how did each person develop his/her own unique belief system”?
If you examine your own life, I am confident that you will find that the vast majority of your beliefs were developed when you were a small child. You learned many of them in your family environment, and, if you are younger than my generation, you also learned some of them in child-care facilities of various kinds. You learned them in schools, and in religions facilities, such as churches. Perhaps one of the most influential sources of your beliefs was television.
An example of one possible belief might be, that your parents believed that being well-mannered was important. In this case, you were taught to be well-mannered. Without your parents specifically telling you to believe that “nice manners are important”, that idea was absorbed into your belief system. You were not aware of it becoming a belief for you, and you certainly did not question its validity. This was what I shall call “formal” belief development.
I propose that this formal belief development process happens to all of us with the vast majority of the things that we believe as adults.
A summary of this process might look like this :
1 A parent has a specific belief at either a conscious or subconscious level
2 The parent instructs the child about this belief
3 The parent reinforces this belief
4 The child “absorbs” this belief into their belief system
This same process occurred whether we were at home, in child-care, in school, in church, or while watching television.
With each belief that is absorbed into our belief system, there is an “intensity” that accompanies it. We may believe in something “passionately”, “moderately” or “sparingly”.
There are other beliefs that we developed as children, that were not “formally” learned as in the above example. For instance, in my family, my grandparents “argued” a lot with each other. As far as I remember, we never discussed arguing in my family, but somehow, through a process of “osmosis”, arguing, or what I call “discussion”, became something that I have always done. If I disagree with something, I will often express that opinion. During the expression of that opinion, I am usually very “passionate”. However, I don’t usually “take offence” when someone disagrees with me. When the discussion is over, I don’t hold grudges or bad feelings for the other person – I just say to them “you can believe that if you like”. For most of my life I have “argued”, believing that I was right (and therefore, the other person was wrong). I am not like that now ! I still discuss many things passionately, but I now have an open mind to most things, and am willing to consider any reasonable information. After all, I could be wrong.
This “informal” belief development process could go like this :
1 A person (child-care person, teacher, minister, TV presenter, authority figure) might say something that catches the child’s attention, for example, “it is fun to travel”
2 The child might think about it briefly, but then forgets it
3 This or a similar idea may come up somewhere else – the idea is reinforced
4 Over a period of time, the idea is “absorbed” into the child’s belief system
I believe many, many of our beliefs were formed in these two ways. They were ideas that were absorbed somehow from family, teachers, religious ministers, friends, authority figures and television. As mentioned earlier, the impact of television at an early age cannot be exaggerated. Perhaps the most important point to make about this childhood belief development, is that, at that age we are very impressionable. We sometimes develop “irrational” beliefs as well as contradictory ones.
Of course, there are some areas about which we may not have established a belief. These most likely are areas that we have not yet experienced.
A theory about the establishment of a person's Belief System.
I am suggesting strongly the following “theory” about a person’s belief system.
1 The vast majority of any person’s belief system, is developed in the above ways, as a child.
2 Most adults go through their entire lives, without ever asking questions such as :
~ What do I really believe about . . . . . . ?
~ Why do I believe this ?
~ Is this belief valid ?
~ Does this belief help me to be successful ?
3
Our actions or behaviours are strongly controlled by what we deeply believe.
4 The vast majority of our actions operate at an automatic level. We don’t need to think about them, we just do them (most of the time). They are habitual.
I know you may not want to believe this, but sometimes, we have been believed LIES ! What are some lies your have believed ? What is the truth about that lie ? Do any of these “ring a bell” ?
Lie - Santa is coming tonight
Truth - He’s a fictional character made up to make small children feel good
Lie - Flying in an aeroplane is dangerous
Truth – Flying in an aeroplane is statistically a very safe form of transport
Lie – Captain Cook discovered Australia
Truth – Australia was visited by several groups before Captain Cook came
Lie – Electricity is dangerous
Truth – The careless use of electricity is dangerous
Lie - Money is the root of all evil
Truth – The love of money is the root of all evil
Lie - Work is boring
Truth – Work is a privilege, a joy
Lie – I’m not very smart; I can’t do things
Truth – I am highly intelligent; I can do anything if I work at it
Lie – Messiah Yahushua was born on December 25
thTruth – Messiah Yahushua was definitely
not born on the 25
th December. He was probably born during the feast of Sukkot (September/October)
How do we react when we realized we have believed a lie ?In his book, “Fossized Customs”, Lew White says “
When something believed-in, is exposed as being false or a lie, a reaction is aroused. How an individual reacts depends on how well-equipped they are, and the degree to which they want to believe the falsehood.”
Dresden James wrote, “
A truth’s initial commotion is directly proportional to how deeply the lie was believed. It wasn’t the world being round that agitated people, but that the world wasn’t flat. When a well-packaged web of lies has been sold gradually to the masses over generations, the truth will seem utterly preposterous, and its speaker a raving lunatic”.
From a personal point of view, when I discovered that, many of the foundations of my faith (I was a devout Roman Catholic for 63 years), were not rocks of truth, but as Todd Bennett describes in his series “Walk in the Light”, “rather
the sands of lies, deception, corruption, tradition and paganism, I went into shock. I was in grief, and experienced its the various stages (denial, guilt, anger, hope and acceptance).
I spent many, many hours attempting to “prove” that the counter-statements I had been confronted with, were false. When I could not, I experienced great pain and grief. It was a very painful time for me !
Why did I feel that way ? My understanding of what happened, is
that when my deep-seeded beliefs were threatened with rival information, I “reacted” with all the stages of grief mentioned above. It is very difficult to convince someone who has deep-seeded beliefs about something that they are mistaken. They usually get very defensive, and will not even entertain the “threatening idea”, in any way. Their “reactions” are often “irrational”.
A personal example of a lie I believed, and how believing that lie affected my lifeI am currently 77 years old. For most of those years, it never occurred to me to ask the deeper questions about important beliefs. I’d like to share with you an experience that totally changed my life. When I have a live audience, I tell the detailed version of this story. For now, I’ll give the abbreviated version.
When I was about 6 years of age, I had an experience with a teacher who asked me to read aloud in class. I was embarrassed because I couldn’t read as well as my classmates, and for 34 years, I had the strong belief that “
I don’t like reading”. It wasn’t that I couldn’t read, my problem was that I read very slowly, and was unsure of the pronunciation of many words.
This belief, that “
I don’t like reading”, had a great negative affect on my life. I was shy and lacking in self-confidence. I often felt embarrassed, and looking back, I know I was socially quite immature until I was about 40 years old.
At this time, I met a teacher who spent
one hour teaching me how to “speed read”. To my amazement,
my reading speed trebled after that one hour experience.
When I examined the “speed reading” method I had been taught, I realised that my problem was not that “I don’t like reading”, it was that
I didn’t know the specific skills that I could use, to increase my reading speed !
I had believed a lie !
With this
new information, I was able to correct the deep-seeded belief, that
I don’t like reading, by creating a new belief, that I had consciously decided with my adult mind, which empowered me to become an avid reader ever since.
Changing False and Unproductive BeliefsSoon after this, I became interested in the fascinating topic, “how does the human mind work”, and that led me to realise that I could change any belief I had, to something that I wanted to believe.
During the next few years, I systematically examined many of my previous beliefs about things like food, money, relationships, and career, with my adult mind. It was a very interesting and productive exercise. I strongly encourage each person to do the same. I believe it will be an exciting adventure for you, and that you will find a real peace when
you consciously decide “what it is you really want to believe”.
Since then, I have made many conscious decisions concerning my “spiritual” walk, and my life in the world in general.
They are things like :
+ Someone knows a great way to do everything (I don’t need to discover how to do everything I want to know, right from the beginning, or by trail and error)
+ While I pay close attention to what I am listening to or reading, I don’t accept or believe what anyone tells me, until I check it out. I “TEST it” as
1Thes 5:21 says. I apply this principle to any and every person, teacher or Rabbi. They are human – they can make mistakes.
Why do I do this -
I never want to be deceived again !
+ The Bible,
in its original language, is the inspired, revealed, written word of Yahweh. I check all teachings against that source, using several Bible versions and language tools such as Strong’s Concordance, to make sure that what I believe is as accurate as possible.
+ I want to do Yahweh’s will.
+ I am very vary or cautious of the “traditions of men”. They may be helpful, and even worthwhile, but they are not Yahweh’s commandments !
My advice to each of you is :
Be very careful what you believe ! It will totally control everything you do !DeceptionThe “enemy” (satan), does not want us to know the true meaning of Yahweh’s Word, and so he has done many things throughout history to “deceive” mankind. There are many verses in Scripture about deception and being deceived – even Yahushua (Jesus) warns us about it.
The following scriptural verses contain some of these warnings :
Mat 24:4 And Yahushua answered and said unto them, Take heed that no man deceive you.
Matt 24:24 For false messiahs and false prophets shall arise, and they shall show great signs and wonders, so as to lead astray (deceive), if possible, even the chosen ones.(Some versions use “the elect”) Luke 21:8 Yahushua replied: "Watch out that you are not deceived. For many will come in my name, claiming, 'I am he,' and, 'The time is near.' Do not follow them.Paul the apostle also comments several times about being deceived. In
Ephes 4:14 he says :
so that we should no longer be children, tossed and borne about by every wind of teaching, by the trickery of men (by deception), in cleverness, unto the craftiness of leading astrayIn
2 Thes 2;3, he says :
Let no one deceive you in any way, because the falling away is to come first, and the man of lawlessnes1 is to be revealed, the son of destructionSo we must be very careful – because we want to know what Yahweh’s Word
really says. We must TEST everything we read or hear, by checking it against the original language of the Scriptures,
so that we will not be deceived ! We must also ask Yahweh to only reveal His truth.
For a more detailed information about deceptions, please check out my studies elsewhere in this website called "How can I know if I've been deceived", & "Is your faith a "Bible-based" faith".
Truth
One of my biggest “hang-ups” is to do with a common use of that word “Truth”. How many times have you heard someone say “This is
THE Truth”, or “G-d told me", or "the Holy Spirit spoke to me”, or “a word came to me” ! For me, the most disturbing statement is “we have
the truth”, implying that no one else does ! How can the estimated 40 000 Christian denominations each claim that "they have
the Truth"?
I’m very, very careful about this. When I stand before Yahweh for my judgment, I don’t want Him to say to me “What was it, that you said, "
I said", about such and such ?”
I have been told, and it probably is true, that in ancient Israel, all the prophets of old came before the elders and spoke their message. Every word of their message was written down, and later checked to see if they were true or false prophets. If we look at
Amos 1:1, we see an example of this.
Amo 1:1 The words of Amos, who was among the herdmen of Tekoa, which he saw concerning Israel in the days of Uzziah king of Judah, and in the days of Jeroboam the son of Joash king of Israel, two years before the earthquake. Q: How could it have been two years before the earthquake ?
A: It must have been recorded in some way.
I wonder if that had been done with all the modern-day prophets, how many would be shown to be true prophets ?
Important Note It is my reality, that we have all believed lies. How and why we have done this, is the subject of another study. I strongly urge you to develop an open, but critical mind, so that you can receive only Yahweh’s truth, but not be deceived by the enemy.
The story of Galileo Galilei in 1633 explains why.
Galileo, the famous Italian scientist, was delivered before the Roman Inquisition to be tried on charges of heresy. He was denounced, according to a formal statement, "for holding as true the false doctrine . . .
that the sun is the centre of the world, and immovable, and that the earth moves!" The statement went on to read that "the proposition that the sun is the centre of the world, and does not move from its place is absurd, and... heretical, because
it is expressly contrary to the Holy Scripture!" Galileo was found guilty, and forced to renounce his views. He was sentenced to a life of imprisonment.
We all know now, that Galileo was correct, but clearly, wrong beliefs (lies) at the time, were believed by influential people. (Careful study will show you that the Bible says no such thing about the solar system). The belief systems of the Roman Church were threatened, and so, they needed to take action that supported their deep-seeded beliefs. As a result, Galileo suffered a severe injustice. The Roman Catholic Church finally
pardoned him in
1992 !
What should we do to avoid being deceived ?My research tells me that there is such a massive mixture of Yahweh’s Truth and paganism in the religious world. It is therefore vital that we realize, that
there will be some beliefs we have, that are lies –
that we have been deceived ! Again, we need to ask Yahweh for His truth, and
we must to do our own study. Remember what Paul says in his second letter to Timothy
2 Tim 2:15 Study to show yourself approved unto Yahweh, a workman does not need to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.
What does the term “truth” really mean ?I believe
it is very important to always define terms by using Yahweh’s definitions. I get a bit nervous when people define terms such as these in a 21
st century manner.
If we go to the Scriptures, we find Yahweh’s definition for the term “truth”
Ps 119:142, tells us :
Your righteousness is righteousness forever, And Your Torah is truth.In John 14:6, Yahushua said :
“I am the Way, and the Truth, and the Life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.”1 John 5:6 says :
And it is the Spirit who bears witness, because the Spirit is the Truth So when we talk about “truth”, we are referring to Yahushua - the Living Torah, the Spirit of Yahweh, and Yahweh’s Torah – the Father’s loving teachings, instructions, commands and ordinances.
We must be humble before Yahweh, realizing that He is our source of everything we receive. We must “TEST all things”, including everything we currently believe is true, to see if we really do have Yahweh’s Truth !
It is very important that we be open to any new revelation Yahweh might give us – we must be teachable, and not arrogant, believing we have “the truth”. Of course, we must also be discerning, and so “TEST all things”. The apostle Paul speaks about this in
Romans 12: 2 which says :
Rom 12:2 And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you prove what is that good and well-pleasing and perfect desire of Elohim.
What Spiritual beliefs do I have ?Over the last few years, I have studied the Word of Yahweh very intently. I have read and listened to, the whole of the Bible at several times, during that period. I have read the teachings of the main Messianic teachers and others, and have arrived at the following conclusions. I’d be very interested in hearing whether you agree with me or not, and if not, why !
Author’s Conclusions
1: In terms of our spiritual beliefs, there are “relatively” few things, about which, we can be
absolutely certain !
2: The rest of our beliefs are what I call theories. These “beliefs” are
possible explanations of ideas or events. We can’t be
absolutely certain that they are true !
To explain what I mean, I will give three examples of beliefs about which I am absolutely certain, & three examples of "theories".
My three examples of
absolutely certain beliefs are :
A: There is a Creator of all that there is
B: Yahushua is Yahweh's Messiah
C: There are two houses of Israel
Three examples of
theories that I have are :
~ The Creator’s name is pronounced as Yahweh
~ The New Moon is determined by the “mulad”, the dark moon
~ Yahushua was born on the feast of Sukkot
One of the big problems we have in the “messianic” community is to do with the group of beliefs that I call "theories". We often disagree about things like “how to pronounce the Creator’s name”, or "when does the biblical year begin". Again, These are what I call "theories" – it is not a belief about which we can be absolutely certain.
As I said before, a theory is simply a possible explanation of an idea or event. A strong theory will have a lot of evidence, and that evidence will be sound. A weaker theory will have a lesser amount of evidence, and that evidence will not be as strong. In the end, we need to ask for the heavenly Father’s guidance, search His Scriptures in their original languages, to see what He says about something, weigh up the evidence,
and then, make an intelligent decision. I believe that once we agree on this, we won’t get so emotional about our “theories”. I realise that I am “human”, and that I may not have all the evidence, and that my reasoning may be flawed, but I am always open for someone to “correct” any error I may have.
With this in mind, if you believe I am in error, I ask you to please show me from Scripture, where my error is.
Two Essential Spiritual Beliefs
If I am not sure about a person’s belief in say, creation, I usually ask a person “do you believe that there is a Creator of all that there is, or not”. If the answer is no, I ask them why they have that belief. From where I stand, it takes much, much more “faith” to believe that there is no Creator; that somehow all there is “just came to be” (the Big Bang theory is often quoted). For me, the
belief in a Creator is the first “essential” belief any person can have.
The next question I ask a person once they have agreed that there is a Creator, is “what do they believe the Bible is ?” I don’t know if you have spent very much time with this question, but I believe it is vital. My answer to that question is that
the Bible, in its original language, is the inspired, revealed, written Word of the Creator ! The Bible,
the Creator’s instruction manual, is my “absolute authority” for any spiritual belief I have. Remember, there is no such thing as an “inspired translation” !
For much more detail on this, please refer to my series, "How to Study Scriptures", elsewhere on this website.
Why are the original languages of the Bible so important ?If we are to understand as accurately as possible, Yahweh's Word, we must comprehend the original meaning of words used, as well as their original context, and we must appreciate and understand the idiomatic expressions of those languages. If we fail to do this, we will almost certainly “misinterpret” what Yahweh’s word says. I believe this is what satan wants. He doesn’t want us to really know what Yahweh’s Word says. As a teacher, I often told my students the following :
+ Wrong information ALWAYS gives us the wrong answer !
+ Incomplete information USUALLY gives us the wrong answer !
+ Only complete and accurate information can give us the correct answer !
Do you agree ?
Summary Conclusions+ Each person has a unique belief system
+ The vast majority of a person’s beliefs are formed (often by “osmosis”) as very small children
+ Most people never ever question specifically what their beliefs are, why they have those beliefs, or whether their beliefs are valid, wanted or useful
+ All people have believed lies –
we have all been deceived+ Many of the actions or behaviours of a person are determined by their core belief system
+ Most people, most of the time, behave automatically, without testing their beliefs
+ Many people have believed the lie, that they are not intelligent enough to study and reason for themselves. They believe the lie, that only more educated people like priests, other religious ministers, and academics can really understand Yahweh's Word
+ Be very careful what you believe
+ Know why you believe something
+ A person can “change” her/his mind (beliefs) in a thoughtful way
+ Yahweh defines His “truth”
in Ps 119:142, which says :
Your righteousness is righteousness forever, And Your Torah is truth.+ There is a vast mixture of Yahweh’s truth and paganism
+ There is a lot of theology, that I call “theory”. A theory is a possible explanation of an event. Strong theories have lots of robust, supporting evidence; weak theories have only lesser supporting evidence
+ There is a Creator of all that there is
+ The Bible, in its original languages, is the inspired, revealed and written Word of Yahweh. It is the Creator’s instruction manual, for how He wants us to live successful lives
+ We must use the original languages of the Bible, in the original context, and understand the true meanings of words and idioms, if we are to accurately interpret Yahweh’s Word
+ There is no such things as an inspired translation of the Bible
+ I am cautious about “the traditions of men”. While I realize that many traditions are good, I believe they are useful provided they line up with Yahweh’s Word. I always want to know if any action we do is a “command from Yahweh” or “a tradition of man”. We
may do traditions but we MUST do Yahweh’s commands
+ Faith is “belief in action”. Faith is a gift – it must be received !
+ I must be open to receive new revelation from Yahweh, and I must not assume that my previous beliefs are absolutely true. We must “renew our mind”. I must “test” all spiritual beliefs by checking them against Yahweh’s Word – the Bible. I never ever want to be deceived about Yahweh’s Word
+ We all have a different belief system – it contains a mixture of Yahweh’s Truth and pagan influences. Be gentle with those who do not believe exactly what you believe. For whatever reason, Yahweh has created things this way
What will we do with this information ?I realize that there is a lot of information here, and that it will take time for you to “digest” it. I will never ask you to “replace” your understanding of Yahweh’s Word for mine, but I do ask you to think very carefully about what I have written.
When I first realized all this, I made some careful, thought-out, conscious decisions. I ask you to consider what I have done, and if you agree with the above conclusions,
I encourage you to decide now to adopt some or all of them as well.
1 I pray to Yahweh everyday, to ask Him to release to me only His truth, and to withhold anything that is not of Him
2 I choose to have an open teachable but discerning mind
3 I listen respectfully to, and read carefully what others say and write, but DO NOT BELIEVE them, until you have tested it against Yahweh’s Word, as it is written in its original language.
I am very wary of the “traditions of man”
4 I read Yahweh’s Word everyday – I suggest you do this in some systematic way
5 I study to show myself approved, but am guided by Yahweh's Ruach, His Holy Spirit, to study the work of any person who some of Yahweh’s Truth (NB - there is a vast mixture of truth and paganism)
6 I search diligently to find more and more of Yahweh’s Truth
7 I find like-minded believers to communicate with – remember, we are each in a different place on our journey, so be patient and gentle with each other.
I’d like to thank you for reading this teaching, and I pray that it will be a blessing to you. Remember, I believe what I have written is correct, but please do not believe what I have written. Check it out for yourself. I’d be interested in any feedback, positive or negative. You can contact me at
askseekknockandtest@gmail.comMay Yahweh continue to bless you and expand your understanding of His Word.
Shalom.
Home Study ExerciseI encourage each person to do what I did, and examine each major belief you have about the Creator and His Word. If you would like some assistance with this, you might like to use the information provided in the Appendix.
AppendixUse the follow questions as starters to the study of your belief system
Is there a Creator ? Who is the Creator (God) ?
Why did He create the universe and us ?
What is His name ? What do I know about Him ?
Are names important ?
What is the Bible ? Why are there so many different versions ?
Who are the “Old Testament characters such as Adam and Eve, Noah, Abram, Moses, David, and so on ?
Who are the chosen people of Yahweh ? What were they chosen for ?
What did Yahweh ask them to do?
Why did He ask them to do those things ?
What are the Ten Commandments ?
What does Yahweh want us to do ?
What is the Sabbath day and what are we to do on it ?
Who is the Messiah ? What is His name ?
Who were the Messiah’s parents ? Where did He live ?
What was He taught ?
Who were His apostles ? Who were the first century believers ?
What did the Messiah live and teach ?
Why was He so upset with the Pharisees ? Who was Paul ?
What is righteousness ? What is salvation ? What is the kingdom ?
What is the “good news” of the kingdom ?
Who are Messianic believers ?
What are the two houses of Israel ?
The list goes on and on !!!
Perhaps one of the most important questions that we can truthfully ask
ourselves is :
"
How do we really, really know, that what we believe about these, & other spiritual questions, is accurate, correct & true ?"